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		<title>By: Financial Advisor</title>
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		<dc:creator>Financial Advisor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 20:51:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What you did in &quot;Shifting my Perception&quot; is known in psychology as reframing. It&#039;s an incredibly power technique and can be used in any situation to change ones perspective and most importantly, attitude. I think most people look at retirement as something distant and spend their most youthful years toiling away to have enough money when they are less able to enjoy it. I had to really sit down and ponder what being successful meant to me. To me it&#039;s complete freedom, freedom to do whatever I want, whenever I want, in whatever quantity I want (whether it be missions, traveling, new ventures, etc) I feel as though if you find something that you love and get can live of that, then you are living retirement -- no matter the age.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What you did in &#8220;Shifting my Perception&#8221; is known in psychology as reframing. It&#8217;s an incredibly power technique and can be used in any situation to change ones perspective and most importantly, attitude. I think most people look at retirement as something distant and spend their most youthful years toiling away to have enough money when they are less able to enjoy it. I had to really sit down and ponder what being successful meant to me. To me it&#8217;s complete freedom, freedom to do whatever I want, whenever I want, in whatever quantity I want (whether it be missions, traveling, new ventures, etc) I feel as though if you find something that you love and get can live of that, then you are living retirement &#8212; no matter the age.</p>
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		<title>By: Martha Johnson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Martha Johnson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 02:54:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello, All.

I loved your posts about retirement thinking and marketable hobbies partly because I am now there at 70.  I am intrigued partly because my interest in this topic let me to write a book, Why Not Do What You Love?  An invitation to calling and contribution in a world hungry for your gifts.  It&#039;s only been on the street for a month, and, given that I&#039;m new to the internet, I&#039;m not quite sure how I ended up here with kindred spirits.  In addition I&#039;m intrigued to be among a different generational group and note that at least on this issue, we think alike. Since I&#039;m eager to learn how 20 somethings think of things, I&#039;ve subscribed.

   What I can tell you is that I didn;t anticipate before I reached 65 how much my peers and I now talk about legacy.  Did our lives matter and is there still something we can do about it with our remaining time on the planet? I wish I had thought about it earlier, but when I was young, I never could imagine being 70  realizing time is so precious. 

I believe almost anything you really love can be turned into income and the book happens to cite about 50 people, mostly &quot;ordinary people&quot; from my region, Western Massachusetts, across the age spans, who have done that.

Encouraging others to dare to exercise purpose and passion happens to be what I have always loved, although I didn&#039;t really recognize it until mid life.  At 70, less mobile, and less energetic, I can still exercise this passion.

I&#039;d love a 20-something review and if Mr. Miller will tell me where to send a book, it would help me understand if the message makes sense to your age group.

Thank you for the opportunity to participate and contribute.

Martha Johnson</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello, All.</p>
<p>I loved your posts about retirement thinking and marketable hobbies partly because I am now there at 70.  I am intrigued partly because my interest in this topic let me to write a book, Why Not Do What You Love?  An invitation to calling and contribution in a world hungry for your gifts.  It&#8217;s only been on the street for a month, and, given that I&#8217;m new to the internet, I&#8217;m not quite sure how I ended up here with kindred spirits.  In addition I&#8217;m intrigued to be among a different generational group and note that at least on this issue, we think alike. Since I&#8217;m eager to learn how 20 somethings think of things, I&#8217;ve subscribed.</p>
<p>   What I can tell you is that I didn;t anticipate before I reached 65 how much my peers and I now talk about legacy.  Did our lives matter and is there still something we can do about it with our remaining time on the planet? I wish I had thought about it earlier, but when I was young, I never could imagine being 70  realizing time is so precious. </p>
<p>I believe almost anything you really love can be turned into income and the book happens to cite about 50 people, mostly &#8220;ordinary people&#8221; from my region, Western Massachusetts, across the age spans, who have done that.</p>
<p>Encouraging others to dare to exercise purpose and passion happens to be what I have always loved, although I didn&#8217;t really recognize it until mid life.  At 70, less mobile, and less energetic, I can still exercise this passion.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d love a 20-something review and if Mr. Miller will tell me where to send a book, it would help me understand if the message makes sense to your age group.</p>
<p>Thank you for the opportunity to participate and contribute.</p>
<p>Martha Johnson</p>
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		<title>By: Shaun</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shaun</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Feb 2010 08:33:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent post, so true though, being so dependent on your 9-5 job can cause havoc. Marketable hobbies is a great idea.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent post, so true though, being so dependent on your 9-5 job can cause havoc. Marketable hobbies is a great idea.</p>
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		<title>By: G.E. Miller</title>
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		<dc:creator>G.E. Miller</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Feb 2010 02:52:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Paul - definitely like your philosophy.
@ Ken - my wife is a landscape architect. She&#039;s always getting offers for help. Definitely a demand there. And you&#039;re right - health insurance is definitely a big barrier - although not expensive as one might think if you&#039;re in good health.
@ Tuan - that&#039;s awesome. Good luck to you.
@ Lillie - you make a great point. In jobs that I&#039;ve had that I haven&#039;t loved - there&#039;s always some sort of skill that you can develop and take into your own endeavors.
@ Angiel - I&#039;m sure the people would love to hear more about the steps you&#039;ve taken to get to where you are.
@ Pam - I think the economy and unemployment has made us all think about how safe we truly are when dependent on one employer for a living.
@ Nicole - I actually think it&#039;s fairly easy to think of a marketable hobby or interest. I think the hardest part is putting it in action.
@ Crystal - looking forward to your blog. Come back and share it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Paul &#8211; definitely like your philosophy.<br />
@ Ken &#8211; my wife is a landscape architect. She&#8217;s always getting offers for help. Definitely a demand there. And you&#8217;re right &#8211; health insurance is definitely a big barrier &#8211; although not expensive as one might think if you&#8217;re in good health.<br />
@ Tuan &#8211; that&#8217;s awesome. Good luck to you.<br />
@ Lillie &#8211; you make a great point. In jobs that I&#8217;ve had that I haven&#8217;t loved &#8211; there&#8217;s always some sort of skill that you can develop and take into your own endeavors.<br />
@ Angiel &#8211; I&#8217;m sure the people would love to hear more about the steps you&#8217;ve taken to get to where you are.<br />
@ Pam &#8211; I think the economy and unemployment has made us all think about how safe we truly are when dependent on one employer for a living.<br />
@ Nicole &#8211; I actually think it&#8217;s fairly easy to think of a marketable hobby or interest. I think the hardest part is putting it in action.<br />
@ Crystal &#8211; looking forward to your blog. Come back and share it.</p>
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		<title>By: Crystal</title>
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		<dc:creator>Crystal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2010 20:05:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>1.  What do you like to do with your time? Are others willing to pay for that?

I love meeting people.  I love hearing about them and I love introducing myself to them.  I don&#039;t think I can get paid for that, but I can look into working for a social site.  I&#039;m going to be starting my own personal finance blog this week just for the heck of it, but I don&#039;t expect it to make any money.  I do hope people will enjoy commenting though, that&#039;s fun to read!

2.  What are you good at that others are willing to pay for and you’d probably like doing more than what you’re doing now?

I give great budget making and savings advice to friends and family, but I don&#039;t think I want to turn that into a career.  I like helping people for free.  They feel good knowing they are getting the best advice I can give, but I&#039;m not wasting anybody&#039;s money if I screw up.

3.  Now, what barriers do you need to eliminate to ‘retire’ and pick and choose from what you just listed?

My husband and I save 35%-40% of our money for retirement and financial opportunities so we can retire at age 52 (we&#039;re 26 and 27 now).  We both want to vacation travel (which we do now too).  He wanted to continue being a sports official and have more time to play games (Magic, board games, video games, etc) and I want to volunteer full time with the Houston SPCA and Meals on Wheels.

4.  What examples of following their natural interests (and getting paid) have you seen from others in your life who have been successful?

My dad loved math and his career as a Civil Engineer.  Now he&#039;s retired and he and my mother enjoy cycling.  I don&#039;t know of anyone else in my husband&#039;s family or my own that followed a dream.


I answered those honestly, but it looks depressing.  I&#039;m not actually depressed.  I have a solid job that I&#039;m great at and don&#039;t mind too much.  My husband is going to graduate school in order to get a job he&#039;ll like more next semester.  We are very happy together and are working our way to an early retirement every day.  I&#039;m glad we&#039;re happy even if we haven&#039;t figured out what we really want to be when we &quot;grow up&quot;.  :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1.  What do you like to do with your time? Are others willing to pay for that?</p>
<p>I love meeting people.  I love hearing about them and I love introducing myself to them.  I don&#8217;t think I can get paid for that, but I can look into working for a social site.  I&#8217;m going to be starting my own personal finance blog this week just for the heck of it, but I don&#8217;t expect it to make any money.  I do hope people will enjoy commenting though, that&#8217;s fun to read!</p>
<p>2.  What are you good at that others are willing to pay for and you’d probably like doing more than what you’re doing now?</p>
<p>I give great budget making and savings advice to friends and family, but I don&#8217;t think I want to turn that into a career.  I like helping people for free.  They feel good knowing they are getting the best advice I can give, but I&#8217;m not wasting anybody&#8217;s money if I screw up.</p>
<p>3.  Now, what barriers do you need to eliminate to ‘retire’ and pick and choose from what you just listed?</p>
<p>My husband and I save 35%-40% of our money for retirement and financial opportunities so we can retire at age 52 (we&#8217;re 26 and 27 now).  We both want to vacation travel (which we do now too).  He wanted to continue being a sports official and have more time to play games (Magic, board games, video games, etc) and I want to volunteer full time with the Houston SPCA and Meals on Wheels.</p>
<p>4.  What examples of following their natural interests (and getting paid) have you seen from others in your life who have been successful?</p>
<p>My dad loved math and his career as a Civil Engineer.  Now he&#8217;s retired and he and my mother enjoy cycling.  I don&#8217;t know of anyone else in my husband&#8217;s family or my own that followed a dream.</p>
<p>I answered those honestly, but it looks depressing.  I&#8217;m not actually depressed.  I have a solid job that I&#8217;m great at and don&#8217;t mind too much.  My husband is going to graduate school in order to get a job he&#8217;ll like more next semester.  We are very happy together and are working our way to an early retirement every day.  I&#8217;m glad we&#8217;re happy even if we haven&#8217;t figured out what we really want to be when we &#8220;grow up&#8221;.  <img src='http://20somethingfinance.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Financial Solutions</title>
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		<dc:creator>Financial Solutions</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 15:31:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Most of the people that I know who have retired are stilling working in the same field they retired from. Many are teachers who find it hard to leave the classroom behind. I have skills in both photography and design graphics that I plan to take to a higher level.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Most of the people that I know who have retired are stilling working in the same field they retired from. Many are teachers who find it hard to leave the classroom behind. I have skills in both photography and design graphics that I plan to take to a higher level.</p>
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		<title>By: Nicole</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 12:44:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I completely agree with your post. Just few minutes back I was talking to one of my colleague that he wants to take early retirement and want to build a house in the countryside before that. 
I personally not in the favor of taking early retirement and I believe in doing what I like the most. Though my believe is latter one but it is really difficult to find a marketable hobby. It is great to hear that you found it and at the right time. I am still trying to find that marketable hobby. The job (10-8) is defintely not that one. 
Hope I find it soon!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I completely agree with your post. Just few minutes back I was talking to one of my colleague that he wants to take early retirement and want to build a house in the countryside before that.<br />
I personally not in the favor of taking early retirement and I believe in doing what I like the most. Though my believe is latter one but it is really difficult to find a marketable hobby. It is great to hear that you found it and at the right time. I am still trying to find that marketable hobby. The job (10-8) is defintely not that one.<br />
Hope I find it soon!</p>
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		<title>By: PamL</title>
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		<dc:creator>PamL</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 01:33:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I totally agree with your post.  I certainly don&#039;t want my whole life to be focused on looking forward to the day I don&#039;t have to work.  Besides, I would get bored if I didn&#039;t have some form of work in my life.  The best thing is to develop a positive attitude toward work and realize that it is possible to find work you can enjoy doing.  Although it may take time to find that marketable hobby, I believe everyone has the potential to do something creative with their lives that can also help them to earn a living.  Thanks again for sharing your thoughts.  I think more and more people are thinking like you these days.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I totally agree with your post.  I certainly don&#8217;t want my whole life to be focused on looking forward to the day I don&#8217;t have to work.  Besides, I would get bored if I didn&#8217;t have some form of work in my life.  The best thing is to develop a positive attitude toward work and realize that it is possible to find work you can enjoy doing.  Although it may take time to find that marketable hobby, I believe everyone has the potential to do something creative with their lives that can also help them to earn a living.  Thanks again for sharing your thoughts.  I think more and more people are thinking like you these days.</p>
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		<title>By: Angiiel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Angiiel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Feb 2010 18:57:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think you hit it squarely on the head with your title: “stop dreaming, start retiring”. This is an excellent point.

Far too many of us are dreaming our way through life instead of living our dreams.

I for one, am a writer and photographer and only just recently figured out a way to get paid for my art.

But notice I said I “figured” it out. 

After dreaming it out (I’m good at dreaming!), and becoming lost in endless hours of “planning” – I simply moved purposefully in the direction of my goals. 

It works!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you hit it squarely on the head with your title: “stop dreaming, start retiring”. This is an excellent point.</p>
<p>Far too many of us are dreaming our way through life instead of living our dreams.</p>
<p>I for one, am a writer and photographer and only just recently figured out a way to get paid for my art.</p>
<p>But notice I said I “figured” it out. </p>
<p>After dreaming it out (I’m good at dreaming!), and becoming lost in endless hours of “planning” – I simply moved purposefully in the direction of my goals. </p>
<p>It works!</p>
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		<title>By: Lillie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lillie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Feb 2010 18:26:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This confirms my view on my planning for retirement. Sitting around all day certainly isn&#039;t in my vision. My goals that I am working on now will transition into a position that will allow me to both earn some additional money and help people as well. Most of the people that I know who have retired are stilling working in the same field they retired from. Many are teachers who find it hard to leave the classroom behind. Too, I have skills in both photography and writing that I plan to take to a higher level. I am looking forward to the new season in my life that will here before I know it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This confirms my view on my planning for retirement. Sitting around all day certainly isn&#8217;t in my vision. My goals that I am working on now will transition into a position that will allow me to both earn some additional money and help people as well. Most of the people that I know who have retired are stilling working in the same field they retired from. Many are teachers who find it hard to leave the classroom behind. Too, I have skills in both photography and writing that I plan to take to a higher level. I am looking forward to the new season in my life that will here before I know it.</p>
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